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Women have been having babies for millennia and many aspects have stayed the same.
But some things have changed significantly in just one generation. When I look at today’s gadgets and gizmos and “stuff”, I’m amazed that we coped and that our kids survived, back in the last century!
~ There’s an app for that
There is an app for new parents to enter the details of the early days, times of feeds, how long, how much. How many wet nappies, how many dirty nappies. No more scribbled notes on scraps of paper. No more pins on a bra, to indicate the side of the last feed.
~ Nappies
I’ve learned that the pictures and patterns on today’s disposable nappies (diapers) are not just for visual effect, they have a practical use. The lines change colour when the nappy is wet.
~ Baby monitors
So much choice, so expensive. Today’s monitors sound like full on video surveillance with sound and movement sensors, that MI5 would be proud of!
~ Gro bags
To me, a Grow Bag is a container of soil where I’d plant seedlings or tomato plants. Today, they are baby sleep bags, some tight swaddle bags, others with a bit more room for movement.
I showed our daughter her baby book. She slept on her stomach, at the top end of a cot with fabric bumpers around the inside of the cot bars. All of those things are discouraged now. The “back to sleep” campaign, placing babies at the bottom of the crib/bassinet/cot so they don’t snuggle down under the covers and the removal of bumpers continue to reduce the incidences of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). We did use disposable nappies but they were much bigger, bulkier items. We didn’t have a monitor, we left our babies in another room and listened out for when they stirred or cried.
I wonder what changes the next few decades will bring?
Ruth, it’s incredible our children made it to adulthood, isn’t it? Although I do think there are many gizmos & gadgets that have been developed to help in the early days of parenthood, some of it is nothing more than marketing ploy in making young parents feel that they need all of these things to ensure success in child rearing. It’s ridiculous the amount of paraphernalia some acquire!
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Yes, it’s indeed amazing!
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And mostly unnecessary!
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Probably Jude, but I guess every new generation of grandparents think the same.
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Yes, I am marvelling at the same things, as our first grandchild was born 2 weeks ago. I think some things are a real help to making the first year easier, but I think it must also make young parents very anxious, especially considering they are on a steep learning curve & also very tired most of the time.! .
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Congratulations Gerrie to all your family. Granddaughter or grandson? Enjoy time with them x
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A granddaughter ..& she looks just like her Mum! As a new grandparent yourself you’ll have to take a look at the quote on grand parenting at the end of my new post.
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I quietly laughed at all the things my daughter thought she needed – mainly courtesy of social media – (which she then found out she didn’t) – but some of it is useful, and anything that helps with child safety is fine. Looking back I do wonder how we managed, and how our parents and grandparents managed with even less. Just goes to show how resilient the human race is 🙂
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Oh yes Claudette. Social media does put extra pressure on new parents of today.
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And just last week my daughter asked me to make two sided cloth napkins for their Charlie at mealtime. Everyone I know is using paper for the most part. So they are going the other direction in that department.
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Robots that all but carry and birth the babies?
One thing that has to change back to more natural ways – disposable nappies… I think they’re very environmentally harmful. OK, ok… an know modern mothers (and fathers) will want to lynch me for suggesting returning to reusable cloth nappies but why not?
Imagine… estate neighbourhoods filled with washing lines filled with nappies flying in the breeze! I see a business opportunity there somewhere… 😉
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I agree that d disposable nappies are environmentally harmful, but I wouldn’t want to go back to terry ones, the bucket, all that laundry.
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That’s why I say there’s a business idea hidden there somewhere!! Dirty nappy’s content into a compost maker… wash and dry in bulk… suddenly there’s two ideas there!! I think I’ll have to start a franchise and give you the Oz rights!! 😉
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ok, waiting to hear from you !
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I love your optimism!! 😉
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And, of course, more expensive now to have a baby! 🙂 🙂 But you wouldn’t be without them.
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It’s amazing babies survived before today, right? 🙂 I used to ride with no seatbelt. And play unsupervised!
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So true. I guess every generation of grandparents thinks the same.
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